we are best friends and hardly talk to anyone else.
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I think that this question has been asked before but i think my dilema is a bit different. There is this girl that I met 3 years back and at first we were just two kids in a church play. We had to rehearse together so I got to know her better. Since she had just came to my church she was trying to find as many friends as she could so I was the one of the first friends she had. Now we are best friends and hardly talk to anyone else. I really think she likes me now and I know I like her. I would like to tell her how I feel but I don't want to ruin what we already have. She sits by me often and we talk a lot but I just never get the chance to talk about it. I really like this girl and barely even know my friends any more. What do I do? THANX
Tell her exactly what you said here. You really like her but don't want to ruin the friendship if she doesn't feel the same way.
If she only thinks of you as a friend, she will tell you. Things might be awkward at first, but eventually you will get back to normal.
If she likes you, wonderful, but you have to agree that if things don't work out you can still be friends.
-- from Marc
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