y best friend's girlfriend and I were making out tonight

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Im feeling really depressed right now because my best friend's girlfriend and I were making out tonight and I still want to be friends with him but i don't know what to do. I think shes going to dump him but i don't know for sure. All I know is this sucks and I hate my life now. Please tell me what to do.

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The only thing you can do is give everything some distance. Don't get close to her and let her tell your friend. If you tell, you could lose a friend and he may get mad and break-up with her and in doing so, get her mad at you. Just chill and see what happens.

If they break-up, wait a while and see how it goes. If you end up with his ex, ask him if he has any problems with that. If he says no, ok. If he says yes, tell him how you feel about her. Maybe he'll change his mind.

In terms of the kiss... it was just a kiss. Wait until she's either your wife or until she's out of everyone's life for a year before you say anything to your friend. If you tell him while he's with her, it'll be no good to anyone.

Best wishes,

-- from Marc
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