Because my father had just passed I was in a constant state of sleep deprivation and depression I wasn't trying to get involved.

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there's this girl and I like her a lot... I've only met her once, but we hung out a whole weekend... Upon meeting me, She gave me, a wristband, and a hat. Two gifts right of the bat, bizarre but rather lovely... I became attached to this girl... Because my father had just passed recently and I was in a constant state of sleep deprivation and depression... I wasn't really trying to get involved with a girl period... Somehow she breaks me from this cycle, I was in, this strong callused cycle, I was lonely but I wasn't hurt... She declared she loved me, it was funny because I feel the same way, but come to find out, she is this way with all the boys. Now she has less time for me, never has time for me, and my loser ass is trying to do positive things to get her set in life, like start her part time in school paying the fees and whatnot... but she loves another... And I am hurt... I seen the other kid, he's a good looking boy, I could never compete with that... I guess I am just confused why she would offer me gifts... And I guess, I want to know if she really cares for me or if Im just a fling, I have asked but she never answers the question... We never had sexual contact what so ever... I just want to know, if she really liked me ever. If she really cared, and if not, I'm hurting damnit, and I want her to feel my pain for five minutes... I am upset because, she should have just let me lone, instead of persuading me, that she was the answer... im a sucker...

I just want to make her jealous... how can i do this... Advice
Don't worry about making her jealous. She seems incapable of that kind of feeling. As a matter of fact, she seems oblivious to other peoples' feeling sin getneral. Lose her phone number and move on.

Oh, and don't let looks be the judge as to whether or not you can get a girl. Any girl that would not want to date you because you are not as good looking as another guy is not worth dating.

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