i like this guy that works at the mall but everytime i pass him i freez up.
Visitor's Question from a unknown year old Female
i like this guy that works at the mall but everytime i pass him i freez up. i can't speak i want to say hi but nothing seems to come outn he allready knows i like him and i think he is cute thanks to my friend that came with me to the mall. but see he doesn't even know me and i don't even know him my self all i know is that i like him alot he did like the compliment that i got my friend to tell him i think he the guy i have a cruesh on likes me but i'm not sure he has my cell phone number but he hasn't even called me yet so far i gave it to his friend to give to him i wish he would just come to me and then maybe i might be able to talk to him but i'm not sure i'm scared
Being courageous doesn't mean not being frightened, it is acting in the face of fear. This is what you must do. If you can muster up the strength say 'hi' to him and ask you to call him (an invite goes a long way). If that is too much, write him a note saying you like him, but are shy and asking him to call you.
Either way, you have to do something. If you do nothing, you will regret it for a long, long time and the pain of that is worse than the momentary discomfort of facing your fears.
Best of luck,
-- from Marc
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com