The Imaginary Special Spot
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
How can I find that "special" spot on my girlfriend?
Wait, is your girlfriend a robot and she has an on-off switch so you can shut her down when she's talking too much? :)
Every single human being is different, there is no universal magic spot on any person. Some girls like a soft touch. Some like a really hard touch. Some like to be stroked on the neck. Some HATE that. Some like to be tweaked on the butt. Some really hate that. Just about any spot on the body you named, I would know some girls who really loved being touched there and others who hated it with a passion. I know some girls who get really excited when their hair is stroked. I know another girl who throws a fit if you touch her head.
So don't try to turn this into a universal one-size-fits-all situation!! You have a unique, wonderful, special girl there. Only she knows what brings her pleasure. Your job as her boyfriend is to talk to her, to snuggle with her and ask her to show you. And then do experiments and have her tell you what she likes and doesn't like. That's the sort of 'schoolhouse play' that you can do for months and months and never get tired of it!
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com