She's Too Impressed with Other Men

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I have a girlfriend and she seems to be impressed towards other men very easily, and I don't like attitude? I had talked about this to her and she has promised to be careful in future, but things don't seem to be happening my way? Should I try to make her jeleaous so that she listens to what I want from her properly?

RomanceClass.com Advice
You should NEVER make anyone jealous on purpose. Jealousy is all about insecurity. It means you don't trust each other and rely on each other. Since trust and honesty is the core of any relationship, this is really a BAD THING.

Does she love you? Do you love her? If so, then trust each other. Every person on the earth has friends, both male and female. Does it really matter if she likes to talk to other guys? If she and you are a couple, and love each other, then you should also want each other to have fun and friends. While she shouldn't disrespect you, and say sleep with another guy while dating you, it's quite appropriate for her to have male friends.

For you to say that she shouldn't talk to any other men, ever, is being a bit possessive. People aren't possessions. They're people. And people need friends.

-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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