I'm Not Sparked by Her
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 3 weeks. We have lots of fun when we are together but the problem is we have this mental bond thats something i've never had but thats all we have. i dont get excited over her.
Even though i'm very big on affection we only hug and "mommy kiss" i dont know if im sexually attracted to her. should i be or is this sign that she aint the one.
The very best of relationships are based on strong friendships. The whole sexual connection should come because of a strong emotional bond, not for other silly reasons. Remember, looks will fade. What if she got into an accident and hurt her face, would you dump her because she was no longer pretty? A real relationship is about the emotional connection.
Keep cranking up the touching. You'll find the spark develops as your emotional connection does.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com