Making Out vs Doing More
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
hey, me and my boyfriend have been going out and we have already made-out, but i don't want to go any farther than hickey...and he has done alot more than i have...and he knows i don't wanna go too far, but i wanna go somewhat far...Please help me!
All relationships involve two people who both have an opinion about what they want to do. That's true for kissing, it's true for touching, it's true for everything. Even married couples have different ideas about what they want to do and how much they want to do.
It's always about compromise. If you don't want to do something, then you should NEVER be pressured into it. Never, ever. You should only ever do what you honestly want to do. If you are ever pressured or wheedled into doing something, drop that guy immediately. That is not a guy who loves or respects you.
So if you want to make out, that's fine! It doesn't matter what he's done in the past. All that matters if what you and he do of your own free choice.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com