I Rushed It - She Pulled Away
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
i met this really hot girl and we started hanging out. she is really shy and doesn't say much. i became really attracted to her that i couldn't stop thinking about her. it got really bad that i just told her that i am really attracted to her and that i couldn't stop thinking about her. i know that i shouldn't have said that because i've only known her for two weeks. i knew i should have taken it slow, but i didn't. she also said that she is kind of seeing someone but he's not her boyfriend, they only hang out every now and then. it is really awkward now because we usually eat lunch together and you can just feel the silence and tension in the air. i really messed up big time and i don't think i can afford to lose her. i really try getting over her , but the more i tried the worse it gets.
Please help me. Please.
It sounds like she is just very shy and doesn't know what to do. Keep flirting with her, keep talking to her, keep spending time with her. She probably is scared of doing something wrong or saying something wrong. Show her that you are still the same person and that you are fun to be with.
-- from Lisa
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