He Cheated, I'm Jealous, He Left
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have been in this rocky relationship for 2 years. We met in september of 2001, got married in march 2002. We now have a child and currently seperated. He cheated on me and I kicked him out in January of this year.
I was hoping for him to realize what he did wrong and come back. Well, now he has his own apartment and seems to be fine. He said that the break would be nice for our relationship, and maybe could start fresh. I am confused. I know that we rushed into getting married and didn't really got to know each other. But I am thinking that is over and he doesn't really want to say it.
I still love him and would like to work it out. But I don't trust him anymore and am very jealous. I don't know what to do. Should I just move on?
You can't change people. If we could, the world would be a very different place because every single partner in a relationship would be a robotic person. The dating process is about trying and failing until you find someone who is - naturally- the type of partner you want.
This guy isn't right for you. You already know that. He won't change. You need to go out in the world and find someone who IS right for you, right now.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com