My Boyfriend Mistreats Me

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
ok,i kinda have this problem with my boyfriend.i was talking to him on the phone one night and he told me to shut the #### up and i said ok i was just quiet i didnt say anything.he always says stuff like that to me and then he says he is just kidding. everytime i talk to him he will always talk about other girls, messin with his hair, gettin him a passing grade in home ac and riding with them to school.

am i just jealous or.....what? Advice
No boy should EVER talk to you like that. For him to pass it off as kidding is just wrong. People who do bad things always have stupid excuses about why they do it. Only you will ever stick up for yourself. Either you start learning to do that now or men will walk all over you.

Tell him that you deserve to be respected by the guy you are with. If he swears at you like that, then say you have to go, and hang up. Don't yell, don't be nasty about it. Be honest, be firm, and stand up for yourself.

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