I Can't Tell Her I Like Her
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
There's a girl that I know who I really REALLY like and she's a great friend and stuff. We make each other laugh and she's, well, great.
Trouble is, she knows me as someone who can talk quickly and wittily (not meaning to 'blow my own trumpet' so to speak) and whenever I try and talk about taking it 'to the next level' I get completely tongue tied and can't get the words out. She tries to talk to me like this sometimes making the impression that she has the same problem.
I often come home and bang my head against the wall because yet another day goes by where I haven't told her how I feel.
Any idea how to get over my fears and just TELL her?
Why tell her? Why not show her which is far more important?
Take her to movies, take her to dinner. Write her poetry. Give her hugs hello and goodbye. Take it step by step.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com