She Feels Excited when Thinking About Me - But She Has a Boyfriend
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
There is this girl I work with (who has a boyfriend). The thing is this. We always flirt with each other. A couple of nights ago she told me that she had a dream about me and her. She said that in the dream we were involved sexually. Then she told me that after she woke up from the dream she had butterflies in her stomach. Then next day while she was talking to her friend, her friend mentioned my name and she got the butterflies in her stomach again just because she thought of me. She also told me that I'm the only guy to ever make her feel that way. Even her boyfriend doesn't make her feel the way I do.
What does this mean?
Should I tell her how I feel about her?
Should I let it be and let her decide whats best for her?
She has a boyfriend. It's incredibly inappropriate for her to be luring you on like this. The fact that she's willing to do this with you means that if you date her, she'll have the same willingness to then do it with other guys. You should really consider that.
If she wants to be with you, she is completely capable of breaking up with her boyfriend. That's a decision only she can make. If this were me in your shoes, though, I'd keep her only as a friend and look for someone a little more steady to date.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com