He is Sexual with Other Girls to Test Me?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for a little under a year. I am 20 and he is 19, we got together in college. While I was at his house, I came across a conversation that he had had with another girl that he had been with once before me (they didnt go out but just messed around). The contents of this conversation included him saying how he wanted to mess around with her still and how he wanted a picture of her nude for his birthday this conversation went on and on.
I checked the date that this took place and it was while we were dating for 3 months. I confronted him and said he needed to prove I could trust him. But I cant stop thinking about this, how do I trust him again? I dont know if I can ever look at him the same because I trusted him so much. I feel like I dont even know him. He says that he didnt mean it but I dont know whether to believe him or not...
This has got to be the STUPIDEST excuse I have ever heard from a guy. Every single liar will come up with excuses, but this one takes the cake. He was trying to get naked pictures of a girl to see if you would trust him??? So if you didn't read his mail, he would have burnt the pictures when they were sent to him? Not likely! So first off he's cheating, and being really slimy about it, and when he's caught he can't even take responsibility for his actions. He gives you the stupidest lie in the universe and dares you to disbelieve him.
I would drop him like a brick. This guy does not sound like he can be trusted with a one-time date, never mind a real relationship.
-- from Lisa
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