Telling a Guy I Like Him
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have been friends with this guy for 2 years, we meet when we worked at the pool together and so sometimes we go to movies together and we talk alot through email and text messages. well last year one of our friends brought it up that we shouyld date. well since then i have developed feeling more than friends for him but have been afraid to see if he feels the same because he had been in a 6 year relationship that went sour and now he has girl issues where he doesn't want to date anyone. I like him and everyone knows i like him,even his friends,but i don't if he know i like him and he doesn't like me or if he doesn't know. I have a huge fear of rejection, and i'm the type where, i don't want to like him if he doesn't like me. i also don't want to mess up the friendship by telling him i like him, and he not feel the same and things be weird around us. what should i do, i need advice ??????
I have a TON of advice on the site about how to move from friend to boyfriend-girlfriend without stress. You guys are already going out and doing things. Just keep upping the ante a little. Go to more romantic movies. Go to more romantic dinners. Give hugs hello and goodbye. Those little changes can make the difference.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com