Romantic Forums! Get the answers you seek quickly and easily! If you can't find what you need
here amongst our tens of thousands of tips and questions, be sure to Post in our Romantic Forum!
We've got over 9,800 members ready to give you a hand!
A Love Quote
Love much. Earth has enough of bitter in it. -- Ella Wheeler Wilcox

Taking a Break

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
My girlfriend and I are "taking a break". She said from the beginning that it would only be temporary. We've been on it for about 2 weeks. She was calling me everyday, and telling me she missed me and loved me. Then about a week ago, I got drunk and called her and left messages on her machine. I've never done that before, but I was just angry at the situation, and I guess I accused her of one thing or another. I apologized profusely, and Ive trusted her through a lot. But now she won't tell me she loves me or misses me, but tells my friends that she loves me and wants to be with me, but needs some space right now. Whats going on here?

RomanceClass.com Advice
Well, the big question is what caused her to want the break. People don't just spontaneously think "I want to be alone" if they're in a relationship. Something causes them to feel that things aren't right and that they need time away from the situation to think about it. Maybe your call only strenghtened whatever feeling it was that she had.

Only SHE knows what is going on since she's the one that asked for the break. So talk to her about it! One of the cornerstones of any relationship is communication. Only you and she know what is going on between you two, and the only way you can get that information between you two is to share it. Again, if you can't talk about these issues now, how can you talk about more serious issues that may come up in the future? Sit down with her and talk openly about exactly what she is feeling, and what pushed her into this break. What does she hope to gain through this time? What answer is she seeking?

-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

Add RomanceClass  to Twitter Add RomanceClass  to Facebook Add RomanceClass  to MySpace Add RomanceClass  to Del.icio.us Digg RomanceClass+ Add RomanceClass  to Yahoo My Web Add RomanceClass  to Google Bookmarks Add RomanceClass  to Stumbleupon Add RomanceClass  to Reddit

Speak Your Mind - Share your Thoughts on this Question!

All Advice in the category - Breakup Issues

Browse our Answer Database
- Browse Answers by Question Category
- Browse Answers by Age Group
- Browse Answers by Date of Response

Please read through the advice on this site before you Submit your Own Question! We have thousands of pages of valuable advice that can immediately help you with your situation.

Sparkly Irridescent Glitz Gel

Going to a party or special event? What to feel special no matter what you're doing? Roll on some glitz! Perfect for adding a special bit of sparkle to your day or evening.

Buy Glitz Gel at EclecticLady.com

Bookmark this site so you can reference it any time you need romantic / relationship info in the future!

Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Twitter Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Facebook Add Romance+Class+Website+ to MySpace Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Del.icio.us Digg Romance+Class+Website+ Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Yahoo My Web Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Google Bookmarks Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Stumbleupon Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Reddit


Follow Me on Pinterest

Romantic Tshirts, Bags, Mugs and More!

Love is Patient
Love is Patient ...
Deeply Loved
Deeply Loved ...
Random Kindness
Random Kindness ...

These are just a small selection - Visit the RomanceClass Shop!

Join This Newsletter!

RomanceClass on Facebook

Join This Newsletter!

Past Issues

| About RomanceClass | Advertising | Privacy Policy | Submit a Suggestion |
All content copyright 2013 Minerva WebWorks LLC. All rights reserved.

this site is for amusement only - professional advice is not being rendered

French Wedding