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She's Flirtatious - is she Serious?

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
i dont really know if this one girl likes me.i like her and we've been pretty good friends for about 2 or 3 months and she once in a while does certain things. i have no really clue if shes trying to tell me something or just fooling around. for instance one time i was sitting down and she came running towards me and shouting my name and then sat next to me.we started to talk but unfortunately her friend came up too and i think scared her away. its things like that( another example is she sent me this e-mail saying that she wanted to come by just to see me and that she wishes she could see me everyday) but im not really sure because i was just wondering if a possibility could be that shes just playin around with me and not getting anywhere serious. Im so confused about how she feels towards me. Also she has many friends, often when im around her she is surrounded by too many people that i get scared to go up to her and say simple stuff like "hey whatsup". im really shy and have no clue what to do or how she feels.

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Lots of girls (and guys!) love to flirt. The sorts of things you're talking about are definitely flirtatious. So the question is, does she want something more serious or does she just like to flirt. Only she knows that :) So you have to get closer to her to find out. Build up your friendship with her. Yes, it's intimidating to break through that friend-wall to talk to someone. So find moments that she's alone and talk to her then. Send her emails. Send her IMs. Keep the communication flowing. The more you talk, the more you'll learn about her, and the more she'll learn about you. And the closer you get, the more you'll know about how she acts, and the more you'll be able to understand why she does what she does :)

-- from Jenn
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