Getting to Know a Girl

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
What would a fifteen year old guy have to do to get a girl like L. L.? Advice
Well, since I don't know this L. L. girl, I would have to assume she's a normal human girl like all those other girls in the world! Just why do you think this girl is a space alien that somehow you are not worthy to talk to? Every girl is a girl. Every guy is a guy. The only difference is in your brain, in how you perceive yourself. These aren't the 1600s. We don't have princesses up in towers and lowly guys down in the dirt. Anybody can talk to anybody if they want to. There are certainly enough movies and books and songs where people talk to each other regardless of background or race or religion or color or anything else.

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getting to know someone is the same no matter what shape or size or color someone is. You need to stop thinking of yourself as being different than she is. If you have this image in your brain, that image will be what comes between you two. If you simply try to be her friend, then you will realize that friendship is the most important connection you can possibly have with someone, and it is stronger than any other bond.

-- from Jenn
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