He Thinks I Cheated with His Uncle

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
my boyfriend thinks i slept with his uncle, and he broke up with me.

How do i get him back?

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A relationship is all about trust. If the trust is lost, the relationship crumbles. The problem is that trust is really hard to prove or disprove. It's just a "feeling". So you have to get him to trust you again without really being able to "prove" why he should.

Sit down and talk with him, face to face. Find out why he believes you cheated. And then be as clear as you can in explaining why that is not true at all. Agree to help him regain his trust in you. Carry a cell phone, let him see the calls you have on it, call him regularly and have him call you. It could be that your boyfriend is really insecure and thinks that you would run off on him. Or it could be that someone in the family is trying to hurt him by spreading bad rumors. Either way, it's up to you and him to face the world together, and to trust each other through everything. That takes work and energy.

-- from Jenn
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