I Want to Trick a Guy Into Dumping Me

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
How do I get my boyfriend to break up with me? I don't wanna break his heart since he likes me so much so I don't want to be the one to dump him. I wanna get him to dump me...how can I do that?

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Wow, do you want to be listed on every guy's book as the Evil Girl Never to Date??? Dating and relationships are about trust and honesty, about being a communicative person who cares about the other person. This should NEVER, ever include deliberately trying to trick your partner into breaking up with you because you don't feel like telling him the truth! You think your boyfriend is going to be less hurt if you lie and deceive him vs telling him the truth??

It's time to be mature here. You were mature enough to accept his dating and to go out with him. You really have to be mature enough to handle ending the relationship too. Yes, it's hard. A lot of things in life are. But if you are able to sit down and talk with him about it and break it to him gently, you guys can stay great friends and who knows - you might end up together in the future and be really happy. But if you torture him and torment him, lie and cheat to him, you can wound him deeply.

Life isn't always easy. It's how you handle the hard parts that really shows your strength.

-- from Jenn
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