Stop In The Name of Love

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i'm 25 and i'm seeing a 16 year old now most people say its wrong but we don't seem to have a problem with that, age isn't the issue. The issue is we have been together 13 weeks and have been getting very close. Both of us agreed not to have sex, but i'm finding it hard to resist the temptation, especially when we fool about and play with one another. She says she wants to lose her virginity to me but not yet. Thing is i'm now concerned as on an occation of playing i inserted my fingers to stimulate her, when we had finished there was a little amount of blood. Now i'm not sure if the membrane has been broken fully or not as i expected there to be more blood. also it has been 4 days from her period is it possible that it's left overs? Advice

Sounds to me like you broke her membrane, but that doesn't mean she is still not a virgin. Tampons break hymens. You didn't violate her purity.

As hard as it is, I would suggest waiting, not only to be sensitive to her feelings, but also because of the legal ramifications of having sex with a minor.

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