Getting Over my Ex

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
recently i just was with the guy of my dreams and my ex-best friend took him and i cant get him out of my mind. What do i do? How do i get over him? I cry all the time just thinking about him. Everywhere i go or look at reminds me of him and im going crazy. I feel like i cant live without him. How do i get over him? Advice
It sounds like your are idealizing your ex and your time with him. Obviously he was NOT perfect for you if he was so shallow that he abandoned you for this girl who is also obviously NOT anything even remotely like a friend.

I would give yourself a LOT of time to get over this. Yes, it's painful to be betrayed not only by a guy but also by a girl who you trusted. But that is really THEIR fault for being jerks. Now you know better what to watch out for in people.

I have a lot of advice on breaking up here -

it'll take weeks if not months. Just give yourself time. Take care of yourself. Eat healthy food, take long walks, get enough sleep. You'll really find that things start to seem better in a little while but you have to try not to rush things.

-- from Jenn
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