Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I slept with this dude that I had feelings for but we wasn't dating. So basically it was a friendly f%ck. I would ask his friends what he thinks about me, they'll say oh he thinks your mad cool.
Then one day me and my two best friends were outside, he called one of them and started talking to her but she said no to him because I f%cked him.
Should I let her talk to him even though me and him never went out? And do you think I should still be his friend even though he diss me to talk to my best friend?
This guy is ONLY your friend - you aren't dating him. So for you to try to tell him what to do is not appropriate. You shouldn't even tell a BOYFRIEND what to do - a relationship is about two best friends who love each other, not about controlling people who order each other around.
A guy always needs friends, and if anything your friend was being loyal to you by saying she wouldn't get involved with him because he was already 'taken' by you. Are you going to say this guy can't talk to any other female just because you slept with him once??
If you want to become more with this guy, then get to be closer to him. Build up the friendship and the emotional connection. That is what holds two people together. Sex rarely does.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com