I Want to Make Her Like Me
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
there was a girl in my school that for some time i wanted her to be my friend even though i will like us to be more than friends. my problem is that for four years we have been in school she is in a different department from mine but it has been hard for me to approach her and even know her name. for 4 years i see her slip away and we are graduating next year and i want to get to know her well before we leave school. i even dreamt of her just yesterday
please help and how can i make girls like me more
You were doing well with your question until the last part "how do I make girls like me". NO NO NO NO NO. You can NOT make people like you!! Do you have a mind control device that you can affect the brains of other people and change how they think? I didn't think so :)
All people like to have FRIENDS. And the way you start becoming a friend with someone is to TALK with them. That is what flirting is all about. I have lots of advice on how to flirt here -
flirting is all about going up to people and having casual conversation. When you do that, you go from "strange stranger" to "casual friend". And then the more you talk you go from "casual friend" to "good friend" and so on - and the relationship grows and grows. And then you build up your friendship into a romance.
So stop thinking of girls as "objects of capture" like wild monkeys or something, and think of them as potential friends. And then get to BE friends with them. I think you'll find that girls are human beings, just like guys are, and want to have friends just like guys do.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com