My Ex Misses Me
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I broke up with my girl that was in love with me. and i dont love her. now she wont give over me, and leave me alone. and she cries every night.
what do i do or say to get her to leave me alone or feel better about what i feel. and maybe try again later.
Breakups are NOT easy - but if you don't love her, it would be even worse if you tried to "fake it"!! A relationship needs to be about 2 people who fully and honestly care about each other. She can't "make you love her". She needs to find someone to love who loves her back. She can't just obsess over someone who is not right for her. And if she claims you ARE right for her then she has some growing up to do - because someone is NOT right for you if they don't love you!!
Here are lots of tips on breaking up and getting through it -
Ask her to read them and take some time to recover. Pressuring someone into feeling a certain way is a REALLY REALLY bad thing and if she is capable of trying to "guilt" you into taking steps, that's a huge danger sign for any relationship she might enter into.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com