He's Cheating and Lying
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My boyfriend just told me about a couple of months ago that he cheated on me with an old friend. he said he didn't have sex with her but i had asked what he did and he said that he stuck just the head of the penis? was it sex? also he has cheated multiple of times and currently he hasn't done any cheating lately. if he starts up again how do i go about dealing with it?
Talk about a sleaze!! Cheating is about BETRAYING YOUR PARTNER whether it is kissing, oral sex or anything else. If he put his HEAD in her she could have gotten pregnant! He could have gotten a sexual disease, given it to you and then you could have been incredibly ill or even killed! And then he wasn't even going to tell you until many months later, when maybe it would have been too late?
This is NOT a guy to keep. Relationships are about honesty and trust and believing in each other. Unless he goes to therapy and really understands what he did was wrong, he is going to keep doing it whenever he wants. And you are the one who is going to suffer.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com