Is He Cheating?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Just recently I found condoms in the glove department in my fiance's car. I asked him why he had those in there because I am on the pill and he said that those have been there forever. I got so mad I threw them out the window as he was driving.
Do you think that means he is cheating on me? I am so confused? Every time his phone rings my heart pounds. Am I over reacting for no reason????? The reason to why I am over reacting is because I have found out twice that other women have called and left a message on his phone. I asked him about both phone calls and he swore to me that is was nothing. So that is the reason why I am so scared.
It really sounds like SOMETHING is going on here. Most people don't keep condoms in their glove compartment for months and months even though they are engaged. Most people don't have strange women leaving messages on their answering machine for no apparent reason.
I would have a serious talk with him and if he keeps denying anything is wrong, it might be time to bring a therapist in. The most important thing to have in a relationship is honesty and it sounds like he is hiding SOMETHING.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com