I like my best friend's girlfriend
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I have a crush and am gaining strong feelings for my best friends girlfriend, yet they themselves are having problems I don't know if I should interfere or not, so what do I do about this, I can't stop thinking about her, what advice do you have for this problem?
You should NEVER get involved in a situation like that, because if you are the cause of the breakup you will always be blamed by both people. It will be "your fault". And then even if you got together with the girl, any time you fought over anything she would think "I *should* have been with my ex but nooooooo this jerk made us break up". You don't want to be in that situation!
She has to make her own decision. It's very common for you to like her! There are tons of movies and books about this situation, even songs :) Friends like each other, they like the same sorts of things, so a girl that one guy likes, the others will like. It could work out between you and this girl, but let her make her own decision first.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com