Long Distance Love
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
i have met the most amazing guy. i met him when i moved to illinois, and i attended school here. he is currently deployed to iraq and its hard having a long distance relationship but i care alot for him and we have only been together 4 months.
Am i wrong for caring so much about him, even though we have never been together physically? (kissing hugging, etc.) i think we have a bond, but somethimes i have a doubt. why am i having this doubt?
Long distance relationships are ALWAYS hard. But that does not make them not-real. Tons of people have had long distance relationships, back to the days of the romans and pen pals. People have had to be apart for years and years. So if you and your boyfriend have only been apart for months, you are having the easy time!
I have lots of tips here -
So put the effort into the relationship. No relationship - whether it's near or far - is easy. All take time and energy. If you're willing to put time and energy into your relationship, it will work out.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com