Weight is an IssueVisitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
my girlfriend cheated on me because of my weight problem. and now i cant seem to get any more atention from the opposite sex. it makes me feel that i can only get girls my own size because she was also big. and she was a stuck up cow to all my friends. what should i do?
You are completely wrong. People do NOT cheat because of weight issues. I know THOUSANDS of men and women who are completely true to people of all shapes and sizes. If your girlfriend cheated it is because she is UNFAITHFUL and not for any other reason. If she is even capable of making "excuses" for her dishonesty it only makes her even more unworthy.
If you want to be healthy weight, then you should be. There are great low carb diets that can help you gain a good weight with delicious foods and not a lot of exercise. But you should NEVER excuse bad behavior for a ridiculous reason such as weight. There are tons of people out there in very happy relationships that are overweight. If someone is a jerk to you it is because they are immature, it has nothing to do with weight. If all they care about is a MTV model, then they are going to be unhappy with ANYONE they date - because believe me, after you turn 30, NOBODY looks like a MTV model any more.
-- from Jenn
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