We Don't Click
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I started seeing this guy for like 3 weeks. I thought we clicked and so did my friends and his and after the third weekend of hanging out he became distant and then told me he likes hanging out with me but we dont click. What does that mean?
Every one of us has an idea of what we want in a partner. You have your own ideas, and you thought he met your needs. But he of course has HIS own ideas, and you didn't meet with his. Instead of just being vague and nebulous and saying "you weren't right" he should at least have been a little better about things and said "I want someone who is more athletic" or "I want someone who really loves blues music" or something.
But in any case it seems that after a few weeks he got to know more about you and found that your hobbies and interests just didn't match his. If that's the case, it's better to move on and find someone that IS interested in the things you're interested in. Any time you try to 'force' things to work, it just won't.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com