Thirteen and Liking a Girl
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
This girl just said she liked me, and i really like her too. What should i do first? By the way im 13.
That's great that you guys like each other!! The MOST IMPORTANT thing to have in any boyfriend-girlfriend situation is to be best friends with each other. That way no matter what you're doing - kissing or dating or anything else - you can TALK about things you are feeling. Believe me, if you can't talk about things, then the slightest little hiccup will cause you to break up and be sad. You'll have a misunderstanding and she'll be upset and you won't know what is wrong and POOF you'll be broken up. So it is incredibly important to build up that talking, that communication, that understanding.
So spend a lot of time with her. Talk to her a lot. Tell her about your family, about your past, about your hobbies, about tv shows you like, about dreams you have, everything. Ask her all about herself. Talk for hours and hours, days and days, weeks and weeks. A great relationship is one where you can just keep talking and talking to each other and be really happy doing that.
The more you talk, the closer you will get, the more you will understand each other, the better your relationship will be. And the more you guys will be able to get through, that would cause other people to break up. It's the key to life!!
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com