Setting up for a rebound.
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I am really into a girl who has a boyfriend, and I have a gut feeling she's into me. And while I am committed to not forcing their break up, I believe it is inevitable (they are awkward towards eachother). So how can I get closer to her without looking like I'm setting myself up? There isn't much time in the day that we are around eachother, and I'm afraid that if I start hanging around her more, her boyfriend may become suspicious.
You are right - if you move in too fast, it will indeed look suspicious. I think all you can really do is wait it out. Let this girl seek YOU out for attention. Be friendly and nice to her. I have a feeling this will all resolve itself. :)
-- from Jill
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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