childhood crush reunitedVisitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
hi, so when i was like 7 i had this crush on lets call him larry and aww he gorgeous, so anyways i would see him at bible study, but then his cousins moved so i stopped seeing him. but then like 2 years ago ( 2008 ) i saw him at this convention for bible study and every thing and like the girl i was with she knew him so she introduced us and everything but he was like 18 (im was 14) so anyways now every year at the convention i see him and i'll say hi and stuff but nothing to go call my girlfriends about. so then im thinking i need to move things faster, right? so now ( 2010 ) on facebook cause i have him as a fried, so this is what ive did: first i was like " you caught my eye and i wanted to say hello, so hello =) " and then he was like "ohh dagg my badd,lol " --__-- so then i was like let me try again, so then i was like " hey" and he was like "Ay ws guud" and i said "nuthing much, with my manikin, & you ?" and he said "Truu nutn much ovr here itherr " and the i asked him how his day was but no respond =(, so what do i do? is it me? do i move on? by the way, i never had a boyfriend juss alot of mess arounds but im turning 16 in 3 months & im a cheerlearder and im so lonely =( NEED HELP!!!! please and thank you =]
I think he is not very interested in you, I am sorry to say. Usually if a boy is interested then he will be the one pounding on your door, so to speak. I would move on. :(
I understand loneliness. It seems it will be like this forever! In reality, though, I hope you know that someone *will* come along and give you the love you crave. The best thing you can do in the meantime is work on being the best, happiest YOU possible. Have good times with your friends, enjoy your cheerleading and bible studies, and stay positive. Love will come - you will know it's there when you do not have to force it.
-- from Jill
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