I was a jerk
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I was in a relationship with this girl for about 10 months. Over the course of 10 months, i treated her like dirt. I was such a jerk to her because i always telling myself that i could get better. I never realize that she means so much today. I would be scared to tell my friends that she's my girlfriend. I even tell her that we are dating just not officially because i was too embrassed by her height. She was in pain all these times because i was being a douchebag to her. After she finally met this new guy and left me. I realized that she means alot to me. Without her in my life is just doesnt feel like a day. i really want to get her back and be with her. I know that there's nothing i can do at this point so im letting her go and do whatever she wants. I'm still here waiting for her and hoping she'd come back. My biggest fear is that im afraid she'd end up in a long relationship with this new guy she likes. So what should i do now?
I think you need to let her be happy with her new guy. What you did to her was not fair, as you know. If you care about her, and if she is happy, then leave her alone. I know that is hard to hear, but I think you know it's the right thing to do.
When the next girlfriend comes around, be a great boyfriend! Make her feel glad to be with you, and let her know you are happy to be with her right back. All you can really do is resolve to be a great guy going forward. I think things will work out fine for you. :)
-- from Jill
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