She's Still Healing from a Break-up

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i have a friend that i really like a lot but i don't know if she feels the same way. I ask her out but she said i still have feelings for my ex. After that we hangout a few times just me and her. She asks me a lot of questions of when was your first kiss or your first girlfriend and i answered never, and she responded you should stay like that its cute (i got confused).

Later on she invited me to her sisters wedding, she is the maid of honor, and she ask if i could be her date (i said yes).

I'm really confused if she is interested or not, but i do want to go out with her, and thanks for the advice! Advice
If she's hanging out with you a lot, then it does sound like she's interested. But it also sounds like she's still healing up from her break-up, which is a traumatic experience for any person to go through. So you need to be gentle and patient with her. You need to let her finish healing. People can take months to heal from a break-up and that is OK.

So don't try to push things right now. Let her heal. Be there for her. Hang out with her. When she's fully healed and ready to move on, then you'll know.

-- from Lisa
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