Dealing with a Pregnancy
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
i'm 15 and i jus found out my 20 yr old fiance got me pregnant. i cant tell anybody cuz my mom would kick me out of the house and my dad would beat me til i'm dead. i cant go and live with my man cuz he's already on probation for seeing me and i cant tell any of those help services cuz then they'd probably take legal action against him. i dont want to get an abortion so all i am is stuck. i've been pregnant before from him but i had a miscariage so i dont want to tell somebody and then just have my baby die like last time. i need somebody to just tell me something, anykind of option that i havent thought of.
last time i was pregnant my man was supportive and loving the whole time and i dont doubt him at all but now because of the law and the pd i'm all alone and sick and miserable. all the other girls in my street had babies already at my age but their mens never got in trouble. i think its just cuz i'm faithful to only him and with the rest of the girls it could be anybody. my man always told me that everything always happens for a reason and that its only to test you, but i dont know why i'm being tested like this. i just need somebody to tell me how to deal with all this cuz i cant.
If you look in the yellow pages for abortion there are always anti-abortion pregnancy counsellors listed in the same area. Their 100% mission is to help women exactly like you find a good solution, a place to stay, a way to take care of the child. Look in the yellow pages and you'll find them, usually they're run by Catholics or another church. They will be VERY supportive because their whole mission is to help you have a happy baby. Talk with them and I'm sure they'll give you everything you need.
-- from Jenn
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