Hard to move on without support
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
A guy I was with for almost a year decides to go back to his ex...I was just his rebound...I am sad everyday and can't shake it..weekends are the worse. And my gf I would rely on for support is in her own world with her bf and a baby they are about to have, so we haven't been able to hang out or even talk. I know it would be good for me to get out with people, but living in a new town and the fact that she was the only one I would hang out with (plus she knows alot more people),she would introduce me to, but on my own don't know how to go about this. I don't know her friends well enough to just call and say what's up (don't have their numbers anyway)so, don't know what to do to get my mind off of him.
It's sad that you feel so alone. Without knowing where you live and what social activities are available to you, it's hard to point you in a direction that will end your loneliness. Maybe you could join a gym or take up a hobby. Just going out for a walk and breathing fresh air will help. And since your girlfriend is about to have a baby, then helping her prepare for the new arrival would be a very nice thing to do. Eventually you'll find someone who'll appreciate you for the great person you are. I wish you the very best of luck.
-- from Jill
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com