she lyks me onli as a brother,,

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i lyk this girl for a long tym, but she waas with another guy. and durin these tym me n my best friends got close with her as friends, soon we became best friends. but then i strted realli lykin her alot , n i got the courgage to ask her.

n i asked her out one day. she seeemd realli happi but she said she needs to think cuz of her bf. tht day and she kept talkin to me alot and i felt there was hope.

but then.. the tymin of me askin her was all wrong, her parents found about her relationship with her bf, which she kept as a secret n now she was forced to break up.

n then she strted not talkin to me at all lyk she was awkward around me . my best friend who cared about both of us asked her y she was awkwaed around me , n she told him she can't lyk me cuz she lyks me onli as a brother n tht she thought i relized tht too.

now.. we're talkin lyk normal friends ,n her awkwardness around me reduced, even thou there is still .
and i don't want to move on at all cuz i realli love her alot.

n now i dunno wht to do , wht i planeed was i slowly built up my friendship again n flirt n then ask her when the tym is rite cuz my previous tymin was compelely wrong n she wasn't ready at all tht tym for another relationship.wht do u suggest? Advice
I think you're doing the right thing by remaining her friend and waiting till a better time to ask her out. You sound like a pretty smart guy so I think you'll know when the time is right. Good luck.

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