Do i have a reason for being this jealous?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I have been with my boyfriend for a year now. We met online in a chat room. He lives in Massachusetts and i live in California. We really do get along. We talk about everything. He doesn't seem to have a lot of friends so he's always on the computer. like waking up til going to bed-hes on the computer. He's 19 and i'm 17. In the chat room, we met a girl. Let's say her name is becky. So becky was always very flirty. anyways, she always talks with my bf and it bothers me a lot. My bf actually told me they talk like everyday for 15-20 minutes. Idk what they talk about. and it's online too. idk if they have each others phone numbers. my bf told me that becky is tutoring him on some math problems he messed up on. But what really sucks is that i said i could help him..makes me feel like he just blew me off or something. since this is my 2nd boyfriend..idk if i have trust issues or if i really should be worried. now he just told me its easier for him to type stuff out on the computer which is why he asked for her help since i wasnt on the computer. what do you think?
I think that online computer relationships rarely work out. How can you possibly know if he's telling the truth about his friendship with Becky? If you do have trust issues then online dating might not be the best direction for you. Find a boyfriend in your hometown.
-- from Jill
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