Im jealous of a girl in his past
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I am jealous of my boyfriends ex girlfriend and some of his other friends who have blatently told me that they like him. It wouldn't be so bad except that my boyfriend is bilingual and speaks english and arabic. Most of his friends speak arabic and i an insecure when i kniow he is talking to a girl and i can't understand what he is saying. To make things worse he tells tries to get me to talk to them which makes me feel even worse. I am afraid that i am pushing us apart and he is going to break up with me. Any tips on dealing with the jealousy?
Dealing with jealousy can be difficult. First and foremost you have to have trust in your relationship and in your boyfriend. Without this, trying not to be jealous is just a waste of time. Let him know that you have a problem with his ex girlfriends and that you don't really want to talk to his friends when you don't know what they're saying. Good communication is a start toward having a better relationship. Good Luck.
-- from Jill
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