Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I met this girl on new years eve after a bar we were at, and we walked around for a bit and talked to eachother, then me and my friend took these girls on a ferris wheel ride that night and while we were up there my friend, and this girl's friend started making out, and I'm guessing monkey see monkey do, because not too much later me and the girl I met started making out too, I thought I did pretty good because we did that a couple times before she left, (maybe not?) and she even wanted me to escort her while we walked around after that. But right after we walked them back to their hotel, we kissed goodbye and she stopped, rested her head on mine and smiled, then gave me a big hug, said goodbye, got her friend and left. She gave me her number earlier as well so I texted her a few days later but no replies probably because she was on a trip somewhere, so I found her on facebook (thats how I found out she went on a trip) I teased her a little bit about the texts, playfully, but she still ignores me.
how come she won't pay me ANY mind at all.
we really got along with each other too.
What should I do? I don't want to lose my mind and say something bad I'll regret.
You know there's people out there who spend all their lives making people crazy. I think this girl is one of them. She led you on, made you feel special, then punched you in the gut. She's a tease and not worthy of your affection. Find a girl who is honest with you. You probably won't find her in a bar. I bet if I asked your mother/father/sister/brother or best friend they'd say you are a really nice guy. You deserve so much better than a flirty tease. Best of luck.
-- from Jill
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