I'm not sure
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
well, over the summer, this girl who i met a a music camp and found out lived in the same town, both knew we liked each other from just like....obvious, but never really did anything. we hung out alone with each other and such. But one day, i actually told her from me, and she said she felt the same way. but i didnt really say anything like, going out and such, because im pretty new at this. so the next, was just weird and awkward, but probably b/c i was trying to hang with her all day, but, that was my fault. at the end of the day she just asked to be friends. but didnt say whether she still liked me or not. so after the camp, i talked a lot with her chattin wise since after we both became really busy, but things will get more free around winter. but one day, she said to me...i still you still like me, but can we still just be friends? so after a while i was devestated. i asked her as to why, she said she just didnt like me that way anymore....well its been a few months since, and not sure, but it seems as if shes flirting with me when we chat. like....she doesnt send little hearts as often, but she has twice now. but im still not sure. we chat, so maybe she has changed her mind? earlier before, it would take her a long time to respond, like she was ignoring me, now, that usually only happens when she has homework to do or something. so have a hunch?? secondly, since i dont see her much, should i just tell her over chatting or should i wait to go see her at a movie to tell her, i'd prefer to go alone, but im afraid of a "no"
People change their minds from time to time and often don't even really know why they feel the way they do. This seems to be happening with her. Don't worry about the past since you are doing ok right now with her.
Keep flirting with her and her feelings may grow stronger. That will also give her the message that you are still interested in her. Then when you go to the movies, you can talk about it more.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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