do i need to give it time?

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
i go to university i'm 20years old and about 5 months ago i moved into a new college, anyway i met this amazing girl when i moved in and now 5 months down the track i'm starting to fall for her. there's a few things i'm a little worried about tho. e.g silly things that people always say like "oh you can't be in a relationship with someone in your own college because that would be incest." and apparently girls like to date taller guys and she's half a head taller than me. i personally think those are ridulous but when i get close to her those things pop into my head and i lose confidence very quickly.
there is one other issue tho, about a week ago she just got out of a two and a half year relationship.
p.s. thats when i realised that i like her.
any suggestions on what i should do? thanks.

RomanceClass.com Advice
Don't worry. Everyone is different and individual feelings rule over the "rules" that others make up.

Ask her out for dinner and see what develops. Keep in mind that everyone (including girls) respect confidence in another person. So if you generally have a confidence problem try to work on it.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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