I don't know who I should aim for...(Detailed)
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Okay, I'll try to keep this short.
And this time, as asked, I'll start by saying I am a lesbian. And my parents are okay with that fact, just not with me dating, so I'd say it was a friend. :) Better? :D
I like two girls very much.
I only know of one who likes me back. And she is my type by far, but she lives two hours away and I don't know how I would be able to see her.
If you think I should go with her how would I convince my parents to let me be around her even though I met her online, or how would I get to her?
Lastly, theres another girl I don't know if she likes me. She lives closer too. But I know she likes a guy. So I don't know.
I don't know who I should go for...
Who do you think I should?
Thanks for explaining... I didn't want to go off in a wrong direction.
First off, it is good to hear your parents accept you. You are lucky to have crossed that hurdle.
Keep open your connection with both girls, you never know when one relationship will end. But my suggestion is to go for the far away girl. A distance romance is always difficult but you said she is your type.
Ask your parents to let you invite her for a weekend (or maybe something longer like Thanksgiving or a school break) so you can get to know each other better. Tell them that it would be good for you to meet in person so you don't waste your time online with someone you might not really get along with when you knew her better. Your parents have to provide the transportation unless her parents are willing to drive one of the trips.
Another girl gave you a reply in another part of our website. Take a look:
Good luck! George
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