I want to hang out with this girl again...
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I met a girl at a baseball game the other night that a number of me and my friends from college went to. She lives down the street from one of my friends so he was the one who brought her out, they are only friends nothing more. This was the first time I met her but from the time I talked to her I knew she was cool and someone I'd possibly like to get to know better. I added her as a friend on Facebook a couple days after. I didn't ask for her number so the only way I can contact her is through Facebook, and I don't want to ask my friend for it because I think that would be creepy. So I guess I'm left to ask her if she wants to hang out on Facebook, but not sure what I want to say. One friend told me I should wait till shes out in a group again, but she never is, which is why I didnt meet her till last week. And I've got mixed reactions from people when I suggested I say "do you want to hang out sometime?" So now I'm just wondering what the best thing to say to her would be to get her to want to hang out, and if a one on one hang out would be bad instead of another group hang out first?
The first thing to do is to start up a conversation on FB. After a few days of messaging, simply ask her if she wants to hang out sometime.
There is no special way to do this... just ask her. If you try to get too complicated with it she may get confused.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com