I love him but I cant stand him
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Im 18 and my boyfriend is 20. We have known each other for a year but recently made it official..1 month and counting! My parents dont care for him and im starting to feel the same way. One day i absolutely adore him and the next day i dont even want to be bothered. Arguments are increasing more and more everday. Everytime i tried to break up with him he always made me feel bad...i would take him back!!! He is crazy about me and i dont want to hurt him!!
This relationship sounds like a disaster. You are trying to break up with him but can't seem to make it happen. Your parents don't like him. You and he are arguing more and more.
You aren't doing anyone any favors by keeping this going on.
Tell him you are done with him and don't listen when he tries to make you feel bad. He is using you. Find someone who loves you for real and don't give up looking until you find that person.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com