Does He Like me?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Well theres this boy that iv known for 3 years, and we have been talking over msn because he lives in germany i see him once a year wen i go to Turkey. This boy seems to like me he talks about marriage and compliments me but half of the time he ignores me on msn and when we do talk we dont have a proper conversation. His cousin hints to me that he likes me but the other times he acts as if nothings going on. This situation has started to really upset me and made me think about it. However when he saw me on holiday he knew where i was and what i was doing because on msn he told me where he saw me and he asked why i ignored him because i didnt say hi to him but yeah he was aware of what i was doing and when we was near each other i realised that he was staring at me. please help me i wonder if he likes me or not
You have to get to the bottom of this.
Either he likes you or not. You really should know by now. Since you don't, there is a good chance that he doesn't. Unless he is a total jerk and can't express his feelings.
You will have to take charge and start working to find out where your relationship stands. Long-distance romances are very difficult anyways, as you know. Without communication, they are almost impossible.
You should also consider the possibility of finding local guys to start flirting with. It is important for you to have that skill and the experience of having friendships with guys. Just sticking to this German guy is a long-shot anyways. Remember you only have one life to live and you should take advantage of it. If he doesn't pay attention to you then find guys who will. You deserve it.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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he might not really like you