Her guy friends make me jealous
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Ok so here's the deal me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 years and I can truly say iam in love with her as well as she is with me... and I can truly say I trust her completely as much as she trusts me.. Iam 21 and she is 19.. She recently got a job at a Mazda car dealership as a cashier. I've visited her work before and have noticed that like 90% of the people that work there are guys.. And it makes me jealous cause my girlfriend is very pretty and very attractive and I know all the guys try and flirt with her. especially in this one occasion where this guy gave her a ride for her to go deposit her daily cash in the back office of the dealership.. I trust her completey but why do I still feel jealous? We have talked about before and she tells me that everybody there knows she has a boyfriend but what can I do? I truly don't want this to get in our way of this beautiful relationship that we have... Thank u.
It's difficult but it's easy. She's very attractive and guys are going to flirt with her. You either trust her or you don't.
My advice is to trust her and let her know you trust her. If you don't, your mistrust will make her feel uncomfortable with you.
Of course you are going to feel jealous... who wouldn't. You have to learn to deal with it.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com