how to make her notice me? or at least get closer to her?(2)
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
umm see the thing is (george if ur reading this and helping again :D) that i dont get to hang out with her much because she is mainly attracted to other guys and i can't stop her, so im trying my best to make her notice me, and as you said when im trying harder in class, she KNOWS im REALLY smart! but when other ppl shes attracted to try hard, its as if spiderman was in town...... but when its me,she notices as if it wasen't really anything, and when she hangs out with ppl, i can too, but i think she will find me annoying because she thinks i dont love her anymore, and in my eyes, my main goal is to be with her, no matter when, no matter how, i want to be with her, so for me its normal im trying to get her to love me and i wanna get closer to her, but in her eyes she will be like "wtf? he dosent love me anymore why is he trying to be good good good friends with me and be closer friends?" and i will eventually become annoying because she will think i love her again and im "N.o.t.h.e.r.t.y.p.e" so she will just be like "hes annoying omg", and probably most of u ppl will just reply my question saying "do u want to be with someone that dosent want to be with you?" hah easy to say REALLY hard to do! i just cant let this girl GO! i have never loved anyone as much as her, if i had to, i would put my life in danger to save hers, give up everything and anything for her needs, i would fight john silva if i would look "brave" and get her... i dont know how many of you feel like i do but its really hard, its as if u were asking me to kill myself but keep breathing... and i want to know like what i should really do in my situation, like try being in mine, give me the most sincere and honest way of making her love me if it was you, i usually dont rely on forums,Q&A's, FAQs but now, its like mission impossible, some guys get attracted to her, some dont, i dont want her to do sumthing she will regret later on, like lose her virginity and get accidently pregnant from a guy who dosent give a shit about her. Or even some guy that treats like trash, hits her, yells on her, and i have seen her cry just a puny bit once and i can swear my life that i think i was gonna lose control... i couldnt take seeing her cry like that, but anyways, if any of u can help me it would be great, please by the way, answer me with a new message, because i want to be able to reply to you immediatly rather than wait another 3 days, Thanks a Bunch...:D
OK, I never told you to give up on her. You are determined to be her boyfriend and my advice was intended to help you do that.
What I suggested was that you make a few changes to the question you wrote me the last time and print it out and give it to her. You have to take the bull by the horns and do something dramatic. When she reads the print out, she may go crazy and tell you to get lost. But that is where you are right now anyway. On the other hand, she may read the print out and decide that you are the one who cares for her the most.
It's a gamble, but it seems nothing else is working so why not give it a try.
BTW, this forum only accepts questions once a week, so please try the advice or wait for another week and try writing again.
I wish you the best of luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com